Now that Thanksgiving is over, it is now kosher to celebrate Christmas. Start your music, decorate your houses, it's now fine to do so. My mom puts up the tree the day after Thanksgiving-there is no waiting. I am in charge of decorating it, and I usually put it off for a few days or week or so, so we just have an empty tree in the living room. This year, I had time to decorate it today. I choose a theme for the tree every year-just a color theme, and this year's theme was black and silver. I know, it's weird not to have Christmas-y colors, but I like to keep things unique.
It took me a couple of hours to complete, but finally, I finished it, and stepped back to see how it looked. If I do say so myself, it looks pretty good. Unfortunately, the black doesn't show up that well against the tree, but it still looks okay. I like the way the two colors look together, and I like that it's not the normal colors. If you look on the tree, there are a few bits of color there, those are the ornaments we made as kids that have our pictures on them. No matter what colors I choose every year, those ornaments are always included-I just love them.
I'm glad to be done with it for this year, decorating the tree is always so stressful-I think I put too much pressure on myself to make it look perfect, which I know it doesn't need to do. But I like what I did, and I'm looking forward to the next time I get to decorate a tree. Which is tomorrow! (more on that later...)
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Saturday, November 29, 2008
The results are in...
I didn't do quite as well in the race as I'd hoped I would. I had high hopes for it, of course, but then when it came down to execution, my body had other ideas for me. It started at 8-and we were supposed to check in at about 7 or so. We got there at the crack of dawn (it seemed!) and then just had to wait around for the hour. Luckily, we could do all the waiting inside, since it was raining. Thank goodness the rain wasn't falling too hard though. We gathered at the starting line, heard the gunshot, and took off. After about a half a mile, my shoelace came untied! I couldn't believe, I had to quickly stop and tie it. Of course, wearing gloves made this a difficult task, but I got it, finally, and resumed pace.
The four miles went pretty quickly, and I did ok until about the last mile and a half, when I felt pretty sure I was going to throw up. I just had to breathe through that, and slow down a bit, hope I wouldn't get sick. PJ was a champ though-she slowed down with me and talked me through it. When we rounded the corner to the last little bit before the finish line, PJ took off, and I stayed my pace. At this point, I was just hoping to finish the race-I didn't care about placing. So PJ beat me, fair and square, and I'm just happy I ran the whole thing. Our times were pretty good-I know we can improve, though. We'll get better. And because I had ran that whole thing, I felt pretty good about eating my giant Thanksgiving dinner, complete with two pieces of pie. Hey, I earned it!
The four miles went pretty quickly, and I did ok until about the last mile and a half, when I felt pretty sure I was going to throw up. I just had to breathe through that, and slow down a bit, hope I wouldn't get sick. PJ was a champ though-she slowed down with me and talked me through it. When we rounded the corner to the last little bit before the finish line, PJ took off, and I stayed my pace. At this point, I was just hoping to finish the race-I didn't care about placing. So PJ beat me, fair and square, and I'm just happy I ran the whole thing. Our times were pretty good-I know we can improve, though. We'll get better. And because I had ran that whole thing, I felt pretty good about eating my giant Thanksgiving dinner, complete with two pieces of pie. Hey, I earned it!
Friday, November 28, 2008
Black...like my soul.
Today, the day following Thanksgiving, is, as everyone knows, Black Friday, one of the busiest shopping days of the year. I was part of it yet again this year. I have a blast during it. People are all crazy, running around with their massive amounts of stuff, and their shopping baskets, and we're just casually walking around, finding stuff we like, etc. I was up so early this morning (because my brother woke me up at bleeding 3:30 IN THE MORNING...so I was up for it. I was in the line for Target at like, 5:20, raring to go.
We got all of our shopping done by like, ten. We hit up a billion different stores, took advantage of tons of deals, and then were done before noon! It was so much fun-I love this day. I got tons of stuff for people, so my Christmas shopping is almost done (yea!) but I also got loads for myself also. (I couldn't pass up these deals!) I am about dead on my feet right now, though. So excuse the lack of information about the race-that'll be coming later, when I haven't been awake for a long time.
We got all of our shopping done by like, ten. We hit up a billion different stores, took advantage of tons of deals, and then were done before noon! It was so much fun-I love this day. I got tons of stuff for people, so my Christmas shopping is almost done (yea!) but I also got loads for myself also. (I couldn't pass up these deals!) I am about dead on my feet right now, though. So excuse the lack of information about the race-that'll be coming later, when I haven't been awake for a long time.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Less than twelve hours....
Tomorrow, tomorrow! The big race is tomorrow! Ok, technically, it's not like a giant race, but its the first one I've done in a long time. I am hoping so much that I'll do ok, but my running lately has been off, so at this point, I'm just hoping to finish. I run this much pretty much all the time, but doing it in a race makes me think weird. I keep thinking that I have to do awesome, so then I start off running quicker than I should (or usually do) so then I'm tired more quickly. I'm going to try to think it out this time-I need to race smart.
I'll let everyone know tomorrow how I did (if I even finished...) and how awesome it was, running in the freezing cold. I prepared for it today, by eating my pre-race meal of pasta. No need to carb-load with such a short race, but I always eat it before a race, to get into the spirit of things. Wish me luck, ya'all!
I'll let everyone know tomorrow how I did (if I even finished...) and how awesome it was, running in the freezing cold. I prepared for it today, by eating my pre-race meal of pasta. No need to carb-load with such a short race, but I always eat it before a race, to get into the spirit of things. Wish me luck, ya'all!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
They just don't make sense!
Lately, I seem to hear a lot of phrases that are used a lot, but I swear I don't get them. They're all cliched sayings, and I'm going to get it off my chest-I use them, but I hate them.
"You made your bed, now you have to lie in it". What the heck does that even mean? Just because you made your bed, doesn't mean you have to lie in it. Someone else can lie in it, you can lay somewhere else.
"You gotta be sh**ing me" What? I had a client say this on the phone to me a little bit ago. I just stammered, "Uh, no. I'm not"
"The Acorn doesn't fall far from the tree" What kind of acorn falls off a tree and shoots across the forest? Of course it doesn't fall far!
"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" If that actually happened, people would never talk. I'm just saying.
Pretty much those are the only ones that are bugging me right now. I hate cliches-I try hard not to use them, but sometimes they slip out!
"You made your bed, now you have to lie in it". What the heck does that even mean? Just because you made your bed, doesn't mean you have to lie in it. Someone else can lie in it, you can lay somewhere else.
"You gotta be sh**ing me" What? I had a client say this on the phone to me a little bit ago. I just stammered, "Uh, no. I'm not"
"The Acorn doesn't fall far from the tree" What kind of acorn falls off a tree and shoots across the forest? Of course it doesn't fall far!
"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" If that actually happened, people would never talk. I'm just saying.
Pretty much those are the only ones that are bugging me right now. I hate cliches-I try hard not to use them, but sometimes they slip out!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Blondes are wild, brunettes are true, but you just never know what a redhead will do!
Ok, so the great hair debate is over! The color has been chosen and applied. Pretty much everyone has seen me with it, but I just figured I'd write the results here, since I talked about the debate here as well. The winning color was...red! I realize now that I should have taken a picture to include here, but I didn't, and my hair is now in a ponytail, so there's not really a chance of a good picture here. You'll all see it anyway.
It was an impulse to do it this color, but so far, I'm pretty pleased with the results. It is very bright, and when I look in the mirror, I still do a little double take, because I'm not quite used to it. I will have to get used to having red/pink wash out every time I wash my hair-but I'll hope my color doesn't fade that much. I've only had one person outright say he thought the old color was better (that would be the Stallion....) but other than that, the reactions have been mostly positive.
I know I'm not keeping it this color for forever, but for now, it's fun! And at least now it's dyed, so my roots aren't crazy coming in. And I'm starting to think of what color I'll do next time...
It was an impulse to do it this color, but so far, I'm pretty pleased with the results. It is very bright, and when I look in the mirror, I still do a little double take, because I'm not quite used to it. I will have to get used to having red/pink wash out every time I wash my hair-but I'll hope my color doesn't fade that much. I've only had one person outright say he thought the old color was better (that would be the Stallion....) but other than that, the reactions have been mostly positive.
I know I'm not keeping it this color for forever, but for now, it's fun! And at least now it's dyed, so my roots aren't crazy coming in. And I'm starting to think of what color I'll do next time...
Sunday, November 23, 2008
The Cup...is taken
The MLS Cup was today, a showdown between the New York Red Bulls and the Columbus Crew. As everyone remembers, New York beat us last weekend for the ticket to the game, so I was not at all voting for them to win. Plus, I actually like Columbus, so I wanted them to win. The Columbus guys all did a thing where nobody shaved their beards until the end of this game. Some of the beards looked pretty good, but most of them were all scraggly and not very good looking. One of the guys-Frankie Hejduk, has long hair, and with his beard, he looked kinda like Jesus. I'm not even the one that thought of that-PJ made that comment during the game. And good news, Columbus won! They finished the game with a score of 3-1. It was a great game.
My favorite parts though, weren't even in the game. Before the game, the commentators were sitting around talking, and one of them, Alexi Lalas said that if New York defeated RSL, and moved into the final spot for the cup, he would shotgun a can of Red Bull. Well, they did, so he did, and it was actually pretty funny. He didn't do it right at all, so he looked kinda dumb. But good for him, he actually stayed true to his word.
The game was pretty awesome, and I know that nobody really cares about the game, especially since RSL wasn't even in it, but coming up with something new every day is hard, so I'm just trying to finish this month with writing every day.The game was good, the celebrations were better. Columbus guys sure know how to dance!
(Not really)
My favorite parts though, weren't even in the game. Before the game, the commentators were sitting around talking, and one of them, Alexi Lalas said that if New York defeated RSL, and moved into the final spot for the cup, he would shotgun a can of Red Bull. Well, they did, so he did, and it was actually pretty funny. He didn't do it right at all, so he looked kinda dumb. But good for him, he actually stayed true to his word.
The game was pretty awesome, and I know that nobody really cares about the game, especially since RSL wasn't even in it, but coming up with something new every day is hard, so I'm just trying to finish this month with writing every day.The game was good, the celebrations were better. Columbus guys sure know how to dance!
(Not really)
Saturday, November 22, 2008
I'm supposed to eat all this?!
We went to Ruby River tonight, to use our gift certificate thingy that I got from work. Everyone who reads this knows already of this, so I don't need to explain. We had this last year too, but last year when we went I didn't like steak, so this year was better, in that respect at least. And this year, I love steak. Meat is just so fantastic-I don't know how there are people that don't eat it!
There is so much food that Ruby River gives to you! I can't even believe it. We had only finished our appetizers, and I was full already. Of course, then our meal came, and I couldn't believe the amount of food on the plate. I ate a little of the steak that came, but then, I was just out of room in my belly. We had to wrap our desserts to go-I couldn't bear to eat anything else. Why they give you that amount of food, I will never figure out. But we ate so much delicious stuff, it was great! I don't think I could eat like this all the time, but doing it every once in a while is kinda nice. I've included pictures of our appetizers and the meal, so you can see just how much food we had.
There is so much food that Ruby River gives to you! I can't even believe it. We had only finished our appetizers, and I was full already. Of course, then our meal came, and I couldn't believe the amount of food on the plate. I ate a little of the steak that came, but then, I was just out of room in my belly. We had to wrap our desserts to go-I couldn't bear to eat anything else. Why they give you that amount of food, I will never figure out. But we ate so much delicious stuff, it was great! I don't think I could eat like this all the time, but doing it every once in a while is kinda nice. I've included pictures of our appetizers and the meal, so you can see just how much food we had.
Friday, November 21, 2008
We're on our way!
PJ and I are working on something that's going to come to pass in the next few weeks. We've thought of a theme for it! I'll give more details later...
Thursday, November 20, 2008
It's a jungle out there!
It's that time of year-when the TV cancel list is coming out. I hate shows getting canceled. Some of my favorite shows are ones that have been taken off the air long before it was their time. Firefly, Wonderfalls, Dead Like Me, Arrested Development. All fabulous shows, all canceled way too early. Come to think of it, some of these shows were created by the same people...that should tell us something. Some people just can't seem to catch a break.
There have been a few shows canceled this year already. The Ex List was one that I was watching, but it wasn't that good, and same with My Own Worst Enemy, so when they were canceled, I was like, meh. Makes no difference to me. But now, things are being canceled that I actually care about! I found out that one of my favorite shows, Pushing Daisies, was canceled today. I love that show. I don't know if you guys have seen it (probably not, since it's getting canceled...) but it's so good. It's so quirky and funny. That's probably why its gone-because it was original, and quirky. Another show was cancelled today, Eli Stone. Another good, original show, and canceled. I guess I should be grateful for the writers strike, because it extended these shows for another season, where they probably would have been cancelled at the end of last year, but still! These were great shows, and I'll totally miss them when they're gone. I also lost one called Valentine-we only actually got 4 episodes of that one.
Of course, the upside of this is that I will now have extra time on the nights that these shows were on. I can find other things to fill it, I know, but I'll totally miss these. Getting attached to shows is never a good things, but I can't help it. Hopefully, I won't lose any more that I love, and if I do, I'll take solace in the fact that I can buy the DVD's-and watch over and over.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Thought-Topia 2008: The November Edition
All right, I'm just gonna have to go with the little tidbits today. I can't think of a whole blog right now, that would require too much thinking.
I feel like I gotta get out of town. I know that I had a vacation like 3 weeks ago, but I already feel like I need to get out again. We have a trip planned next month-at the end-but I feel like that's so far away. Now that soccer is over, and the weather is turning cold, I am mourning the end of summer. I miss it already. I don't want it to turn cold.
Today was mom's birthday, (Happy Birthday, Mama!) and we went out to dinner at the Pizza Factory. There was a little person (ok, a child) that was sitting at the table next to us who I think was trying to play games with me. She kept look over and smiling and laughing and hiding and all that stuff, but I'm not into playing games with kids at places. I just stared at her, not smiling, hoping she would get the hint. She didn't, she kept going for a long time. When she finally stopped, I was happy. I understand most people like to play with the childrens, but I am not one of them.
Work will be depressing for the next couple of days because I won't have my comrade with me. Chelle will be off, doing fun things, while I am stuck at work, talking to nobody, and sharing all my oodles of information with no one. I understand that she needs to take the time off, and she's entitled to get out of work sometimes, but I will be sad being all by myself.
I still couldn't come up with a hair color. I'm getting such conflicting votes from everyone, and the voting is pretty much even, there are two votes for every color. I'm thinking that when I dye it (probably this weekend...) it'll be an impulse decision. Sometimes, they can be the best choices, but once in a while, two days later, I'm totally regretting the color I chose. Let's hope that doesn't happen this time.
No more thoughts at this time, really. Join us next time, when our topics will be "If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?" and Bewitched: Fun-loving show or brainwashing us into the occult? Until then, I am Setenta Sports.
I feel like I gotta get out of town. I know that I had a vacation like 3 weeks ago, but I already feel like I need to get out again. We have a trip planned next month-at the end-but I feel like that's so far away. Now that soccer is over, and the weather is turning cold, I am mourning the end of summer. I miss it already. I don't want it to turn cold.
Today was mom's birthday, (Happy Birthday, Mama!) and we went out to dinner at the Pizza Factory. There was a little person (ok, a child) that was sitting at the table next to us who I think was trying to play games with me. She kept look over and smiling and laughing and hiding and all that stuff, but I'm not into playing games with kids at places. I just stared at her, not smiling, hoping she would get the hint. She didn't, she kept going for a long time. When she finally stopped, I was happy. I understand most people like to play with the childrens, but I am not one of them.
Work will be depressing for the next couple of days because I won't have my comrade with me. Chelle will be off, doing fun things, while I am stuck at work, talking to nobody, and sharing all my oodles of information with no one. I understand that she needs to take the time off, and she's entitled to get out of work sometimes, but I will be sad being all by myself.
I still couldn't come up with a hair color. I'm getting such conflicting votes from everyone, and the voting is pretty much even, there are two votes for every color. I'm thinking that when I dye it (probably this weekend...) it'll be an impulse decision. Sometimes, they can be the best choices, but once in a while, two days later, I'm totally regretting the color I chose. Let's hope that doesn't happen this time.
No more thoughts at this time, really. Join us next time, when our topics will be "If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?" and Bewitched: Fun-loving show or brainwashing us into the occult? Until then, I am Setenta Sports.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Take a picture, it'd last longer
Today, I was looking through photo albums with my sister, Rory, and we were reminiscing about the old days. Ok, not really reminiscing. There aren't a whole lot of pictures in these books of us for us to remember, just the same ones we've been looking at for years. I am barely in this book. I am in 1 1/2 pictures. I say 1/2 because there is some debate as to whether or not the little girl in the picture is me, but I say it is, I recognize the dress-I know it's mine. But others are saying its not. You can't see the face of the girl, just the top of the head, so there's no way to ever know, but it's still raging on. Maybe one day we'll come to an agreement, but for now, no way. There are, however, about 70 pictures of Rory in there. I don't know why we all loved Rory more than me, but she's all over that book. Actually, every person in the family is in the book many times over, but I for some reason am MIA. Combine that with my lack of knowledge about my childhood, and I say that something is fishy.
I do have extensive photo albums of myself from about the time I'm 18. I have so many photo albums, and they're all categorized. (Of course, if you know me, you know this is normal) They're divided into Family, Friends, Misc (which is mostly just pictures of scenery and my animals), and a couple of photo albums dedicated to just pictures of me and Rory. There are more albums than that, but you get the idea. I'm a fan of taking pictures. I hate looking at them afterwards, sometimes. I always think in my head of how I must be looking, then when I see it, and it doesn't look that way, I'm so disappointed! I look at a flaw in the picture, and I focus on that. Never mind that there are probably good things in the picture, because my one eye is looking off, I hate the picture. But I keep them all, and we love to go back and look at them, because we remember everything that was going on in that picture. One of my favorite pictures is when Rory and I were fighting-and we were taking pictures for Christmas-and she's so angry. You can see it in the pictures-she's about ready to kill someone. They still make me laugh every time I see them!
Pictures are a fun thing, and I wish everyone enjoyed them like I do. Whether you're someone who hates getting their picture taken, or someone who smiles big every time a camera is whipped out, everyone has at least had one taken-and then probably dissected it. I'm going to include my fav picture of myself here, just because. I try to do pictures with all my blogs, but sometimes, there's not one to attach! The reason I love this picture is because it's not posed for or anything. Rory called my name as we were out in our older sister's backyard, I look over, and she snapped it. Plus, it reminds me of how much fun we were having that day, just hanging out. If you have time, maybe go through some old photo albums on your own, and get lost in the memories. You've maybe forgotten some of the best times!
I do have extensive photo albums of myself from about the time I'm 18. I have so many photo albums, and they're all categorized. (Of course, if you know me, you know this is normal) They're divided into Family, Friends, Misc (which is mostly just pictures of scenery and my animals), and a couple of photo albums dedicated to just pictures of me and Rory. There are more albums than that, but you get the idea. I'm a fan of taking pictures. I hate looking at them afterwards, sometimes. I always think in my head of how I must be looking, then when I see it, and it doesn't look that way, I'm so disappointed! I look at a flaw in the picture, and I focus on that. Never mind that there are probably good things in the picture, because my one eye is looking off, I hate the picture. But I keep them all, and we love to go back and look at them, because we remember everything that was going on in that picture. One of my favorite pictures is when Rory and I were fighting-and we were taking pictures for Christmas-and she's so angry. You can see it in the pictures-she's about ready to kill someone. They still make me laugh every time I see them!
Pictures are a fun thing, and I wish everyone enjoyed them like I do. Whether you're someone who hates getting their picture taken, or someone who smiles big every time a camera is whipped out, everyone has at least had one taken-and then probably dissected it. I'm going to include my fav picture of myself here, just because. I try to do pictures with all my blogs, but sometimes, there's not one to attach! The reason I love this picture is because it's not posed for or anything. Rory called my name as we were out in our older sister's backyard, I look over, and she snapped it. Plus, it reminds me of how much fun we were having that day, just hanging out. If you have time, maybe go through some old photo albums on your own, and get lost in the memories. You've maybe forgotten some of the best times!
Monday, November 17, 2008
Maybe I'm too smart... so smart it's off-putting.
Ok, know in advance that this blog is a rant. And I'm not trying to brag (very much...) in here, I just need to get something off my chest.
When I was younger, I was a pretty smart kid. I didn't outgrow it or anything-don't make those jokes, silly peeps. I started reading at a young age, and, although I know this doesn't indicate smartness, I read incredibly fast. I was in all the higher math classes in school-I was the only sophomore in my class full of seniors. I'd probably consider myself pretty intelligent, if I had to admit it.
I understand that people don't think I'm very bright. Maybe because I laugh at dumb things, or just laugh/giggle a lot in general, have a super-sunny disposition, or because I do the 'That's What She Said' jokes-which I find hilarious. I'm constantly finding myself having things explained to me-things which I already understand. Mostly at work-people who have been there longer than I seem to want to explain simple things to me. I get it all-I understand how to do it. But there they are-and of course, they're always pretty condescending about it. I'm not alone in this particular instance-others have actually noticed it as well. I don't like to be talked down to, I don't like having things "dumbed down" for me-I already get what you're trying to explain to me.
So dear friends who read this (all four of you) please understand this and spread the word. I not dumb-contrary to the vibe I might give off. Regardless, always know that when you're talking, I'm more than listening. I'm probably thinking of more than you realize.
When I was younger, I was a pretty smart kid. I didn't outgrow it or anything-don't make those jokes, silly peeps. I started reading at a young age, and, although I know this doesn't indicate smartness, I read incredibly fast. I was in all the higher math classes in school-I was the only sophomore in my class full of seniors. I'd probably consider myself pretty intelligent, if I had to admit it.
I understand that people don't think I'm very bright. Maybe because I laugh at dumb things, or just laugh/giggle a lot in general, have a super-sunny disposition, or because I do the 'That's What She Said' jokes-which I find hilarious. I'm constantly finding myself having things explained to me-things which I already understand. Mostly at work-people who have been there longer than I seem to want to explain simple things to me. I get it all-I understand how to do it. But there they are-and of course, they're always pretty condescending about it. I'm not alone in this particular instance-others have actually noticed it as well. I don't like to be talked down to, I don't like having things "dumbed down" for me-I already get what you're trying to explain to me.
So dear friends who read this (all four of you) please understand this and spread the word. I not dumb-contrary to the vibe I might give off. Regardless, always know that when you're talking, I'm more than listening. I'm probably thinking of more than you realize.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Get going. Get up and walk if you have to, but finish the damned race
I went on an afternoon run today, while the weather was the most warm. I laced up my shoes, cranked the iPod up to 11, and set out. I'm trying to run outside right now, to prepare. I'm doing another race! I haven't done one in a long time-and I don't think the time between has been kind. In the beginning of the year, when we were doing races, I was good, I did them with no problem. But then came the summer, and things were just way too busy to run every day, and my fitness dropped a little. PJ told me about this race about a week ago, and we just knew we had to do it. It's on Thanksgiving day, and it's a 4-miler. I'm totally looking forward to this.
Running is my drug. Sometimes I bitch about it before I have to do it, but I love it. I know some people like to drink or do drugs, or whatever, to forget a problem, or try to think it out, but not me. My drink is running. I love that if I need to think something out, I can just run. I just have to put on my shoes, and after the initial 5 minutes where I'm getting used to the breathing, I'm in. I just let my mind go, and I can think about nothing, or I can think everything out. I don't have to hear other people jabbering about anything, and I don't have to get a group together to do my thing. It's just me. I love it.
I can't wait for this race, and seeing how it's in 11 days, I better start getting prepared. Of course, this means I now give up my favorite foods. We did this for the last race, and it totally helped, so here I go. Wish me luck in not eating my delicious chocolates and similar foods for the next two weeks. Of course, that night is Thanksgiving, so I'll be eating it all then and more, so it'll be ok, at least I have an end goal in sight. And good news, if I finish in the top 5 (of women) I get a free turkey! Wish me luck!
Running is my drug. Sometimes I bitch about it before I have to do it, but I love it. I know some people like to drink or do drugs, or whatever, to forget a problem, or try to think it out, but not me. My drink is running. I love that if I need to think something out, I can just run. I just have to put on my shoes, and after the initial 5 minutes where I'm getting used to the breathing, I'm in. I just let my mind go, and I can think about nothing, or I can think everything out. I don't have to hear other people jabbering about anything, and I don't have to get a group together to do my thing. It's just me. I love it.
I can't wait for this race, and seeing how it's in 11 days, I better start getting prepared. Of course, this means I now give up my favorite foods. We did this for the last race, and it totally helped, so here I go. Wish me luck in not eating my delicious chocolates and similar foods for the next two weeks. Of course, that night is Thanksgiving, so I'll be eating it all then and more, so it'll be ok, at least I have an end goal in sight. And good news, if I finish in the top 5 (of women) I get a free turkey! Wish me luck!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Sugar, we're going down swinging
As everyone who knows me knows, Real had another playoff game tonight. It was the final one before the MLS cup game next weekend. Whoever won this one would advance to the finals. I hated that the game was so late, at 7:30, but that's only because it was so cold. But I wore two pairs of thick socks, 2 jackets, a couple of shirts, and I was still cold. There was no escaping the cold! We played the New York Red Bulls, and sadly...we didn't win. Not for lack of trying, we played so hard, particularly towards the end. We lost, 1-0. They scored off a crappy judgment call by our defense. It was unfortunate, but nothing we can do to control that. We barely limped toward the half, trying to defend ourselves. When we came back, we were ready to play. We came out swinging, and thats how we went down. We were all-out until the final whistle. Real was just terribly unlucky. I can't even count the number of times a shot of ours bounced off the bar, or barely missed. By the end of the game, I just had to laugh when we missed, to stop from crying.
It was our first year getting into the playoffs, and it won't be our last. I'm so sad that now the season is over. No more MLS until the season begins next March/April. I'll have to get my soccer fix now from the EPL games. And while I love any soccer game, of any team, it's just not the same. I know the players and coaches in our league. I know some of the guys over in England, but not nearly enough. But at least I have some games to tide me over. I'm hoping in the off season, Real can improve in their consistency, to be the team I know they can be. Then next year, when we advance to the MLS Cup, I'll be there to cheer my team on.
It was our first year getting into the playoffs, and it won't be our last. I'm so sad that now the season is over. No more MLS until the season begins next March/April. I'll have to get my soccer fix now from the EPL games. And while I love any soccer game, of any team, it's just not the same. I know the players and coaches in our league. I know some of the guys over in England, but not nearly enough. But at least I have some games to tide me over. I'm hoping in the off season, Real can improve in their consistency, to be the team I know they can be. Then next year, when we advance to the MLS Cup, I'll be there to cheer my team on.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Vieve: International Woman of Mystery
I would love to be a spy. It'd be so awesome to be constantly changing names, appearances, and jetting around the world, doing secret things. There are different kinds of spies though-I've learned this from the movies. (where everything is real!) I'm not going to spell out all the different types, but I'll choose between two. I think I'd rather be the Sydney Bristow-Alias spy than the James Bond type of spy. While Bond is awesome and full of rage, and has no second thoughts about killing anybody he doesn't need. He's all muscles and hot...ok, I think I'm getting off the subject here. But Sydney has the cooler job. She knows practically every language, and she gets to dress up all the times for her missions. I would love to do that.
The one thing that always bugged me about James Bond is that everyone knows about him. Surely, he's the worst spy in the world if all the bad guys know him-it would make him such an easy target! No one ever seems to acknowledge that though. He's still just used in all the missions, trying to be all secretive, which he never is. Every Bond thing ends in a big explosion, or bodies everywhere, or bullets being fired in a crowded place. Everyone knows!
Bristow, on the other hand, nobody knows. She changes her look for every mission-and she really does a good job of blending in. Her missions usually always have a hitch-while she's obtaining the secret documents or whatever, the person she's getting it from always seems to have a need to go into the room where they are, so the pressure is there. She always gets out in the nick of time, though, and that's whats important. Doesn't matter how the mission finishes, so long as it finishes with the best results.
I already know I'd hate to train to be a spy. You'd have to be in great shape (which I kinda am, but not like these people) and there'd be a lot of scary situations that you'd have to go into, which I know would always make me nervous, and spies aren't supposed to be nervous. They're supposed to be suave and cool, and they blend into the background. I can blend, but I don't know how cool I could be in any of these situations. But I'll dream it about it-and thats about as far as it can go.
The one thing that always bugged me about James Bond is that everyone knows about him. Surely, he's the worst spy in the world if all the bad guys know him-it would make him such an easy target! No one ever seems to acknowledge that though. He's still just used in all the missions, trying to be all secretive, which he never is. Every Bond thing ends in a big explosion, or bodies everywhere, or bullets being fired in a crowded place. Everyone knows!
Bristow, on the other hand, nobody knows. She changes her look for every mission-and she really does a good job of blending in. Her missions usually always have a hitch-while she's obtaining the secret documents or whatever, the person she's getting it from always seems to have a need to go into the room where they are, so the pressure is there. She always gets out in the nick of time, though, and that's whats important. Doesn't matter how the mission finishes, so long as it finishes with the best results.
I already know I'd hate to train to be a spy. You'd have to be in great shape (which I kinda am, but not like these people) and there'd be a lot of scary situations that you'd have to go into, which I know would always make me nervous, and spies aren't supposed to be nervous. They're supposed to be suave and cool, and they blend into the background. I can blend, but I don't know how cool I could be in any of these situations. But I'll dream it about it-and thats about as far as it can go.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
I'm so excited, I'm so excited, I'm so, I'm so... scared!
I was watching the Ellen Degeneres show today, and Steve Carrell is on, and they're talking about getting scared. Not in the sense of like, a horror movie scaring, but like, people surprising you kind of scary. I hate being scared-in either sense of the word. I do watch the scary movies, but I hate being scared in them. I hav to watch in full light, hanging onto someone as tight as can be. Usually, I choose my sister to do this, but when I don't have a person, I choose my Troop. She just lays there and lets me cuddle her.
But I'm getting away from the point. I do get scared very easily. I sit in the middle desk at work, between Chelle and Jules, but I used to sit in the back desk. Whenever anybody would walk up behind me, not making noise, I would get scared. Every time! I don't even know how it would happen, but it did. I have one really good scare-and it actually happened at work. The story unfolds:
So one day, I'm at work, and it's when we have a different set up than we do now. Now we have cubicles-and all of our desks are the same, in a row, but they used to be all different, and the desks were huge-taller than I. I was over talking to...Fred (to use a name Chelle already picked out) and then I hear my phone ring. Let me preface-I was wearing some high heels this day. I sprint over to get my phone, sliding a little on the plasticy thing on the ground that protects it from the chair. As I rounded the corner and grabbed my phone, out popped Tyler from behind my desk, scaring the hell out of me. I screamed into the phone, threw it, and then I just started to laugh. I was laughing so hard I was crying, and could barely get a breath. I think it might have taken a few years off, but it was well played, I had to tip my hat to him. Luckily, the person on the phone wasn't a business call-it was just my dad, who was very confused as to why I just picked up the phone and yelled. We got it sorted, though.
I don't think I'll ever get past getting scared. I am getting better though-I don't get scared when people come up behind me. I'm hoping to maybe get it under control so that when someone does scare me, I can just keep it contained-they'll never know they scared me! And until then-please don't anybody who read this try to scare me. Because thats just mean.
But I'm getting away from the point. I do get scared very easily. I sit in the middle desk at work, between Chelle and Jules, but I used to sit in the back desk. Whenever anybody would walk up behind me, not making noise, I would get scared. Every time! I don't even know how it would happen, but it did. I have one really good scare-and it actually happened at work. The story unfolds:
So one day, I'm at work, and it's when we have a different set up than we do now. Now we have cubicles-and all of our desks are the same, in a row, but they used to be all different, and the desks were huge-taller than I. I was over talking to...Fred (to use a name Chelle already picked out) and then I hear my phone ring. Let me preface-I was wearing some high heels this day. I sprint over to get my phone, sliding a little on the plasticy thing on the ground that protects it from the chair. As I rounded the corner and grabbed my phone, out popped Tyler from behind my desk, scaring the hell out of me. I screamed into the phone, threw it, and then I just started to laugh. I was laughing so hard I was crying, and could barely get a breath. I think it might have taken a few years off, but it was well played, I had to tip my hat to him. Luckily, the person on the phone wasn't a business call-it was just my dad, who was very confused as to why I just picked up the phone and yelled. We got it sorted, though.
I don't think I'll ever get past getting scared. I am getting better though-I don't get scared when people come up behind me. I'm hoping to maybe get it under control so that when someone does scare me, I can just keep it contained-they'll never know they scared me! And until then-please don't anybody who read this try to scare me. Because thats just mean.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Gentlemen prefer blondes... but gentlemen marry brunettes
I've got a secret. Are you ready? It's something you'll never guess, but I need to get it off my chest. I....color my hair. I know, it's a shocking revelation. Ok, maybe not so much. Especially when it's times like now, and my roots have started to grow in. I hate that. I wish that once you dyed your hair, your new hair would grow in, matching the one you chose. But dang it, that's just not how things work! It's getting to be that time again, when I need to dye it again. I sorta hate dyeing my hair. No matter if I get it done professionally, or do it myself at home (which is how I usually do it-it's so much cheaper that way!) it takes so long, and there's always dye left over on my face or ears or something.
The reason I'm telling everyone this, is because I'm trying to make a decision. Every time I need to choose a new color, I always debate it. There are so many choices. But this time-I'm thinking of changing it up completely, but I want input from people. I never know which color looks best on me-which is where you guys come in. Yes, I do get that only like, 4 people read this, but I need all the help I can get. I think I've had my hair all the colors that it can be (without being crazy like blue or purple or something) but I don't know that everyone that reads this has seen me with it. I'm leaving it easy-I'm just trying to choose between 3, basically. I'm going between blonde, brown, or red. I like my hair all three, that's why the choice is so difficult. I know the blonde won't be totally completely blonde, (that takes time and way more money than I'm willing to pay) but enough in there to be noticably blonder. The brown is the same brown-just a little darker than what I have right now, I think. The red I'm choosing is red-not just auburny, but I want it like, fiery red red. I'm not sure when I'm going to dye my hair, but I just want people's inputs on what looks best on me. So speak up, people. Let me know your thoughts.
The reason I'm telling everyone this, is because I'm trying to make a decision. Every time I need to choose a new color, I always debate it. There are so many choices. But this time-I'm thinking of changing it up completely, but I want input from people. I never know which color looks best on me-which is where you guys come in. Yes, I do get that only like, 4 people read this, but I need all the help I can get. I think I've had my hair all the colors that it can be (without being crazy like blue or purple or something) but I don't know that everyone that reads this has seen me with it. I'm leaving it easy-I'm just trying to choose between 3, basically. I'm going between blonde, brown, or red. I like my hair all three, that's why the choice is so difficult. I know the blonde won't be totally completely blonde, (that takes time and way more money than I'm willing to pay) but enough in there to be noticably blonder. The brown is the same brown-just a little darker than what I have right now, I think. The red I'm choosing is red-not just auburny, but I want it like, fiery red red. I'm not sure when I'm going to dye my hair, but I just want people's inputs on what looks best on me. So speak up, people. Let me know your thoughts.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Dogs' lives are too short. Their only fault, really
This day was actually pretty sad. Technically, last night was sad, and today is just a continuation. Last night, our dog Sweet Pea passed away. (Can that phrase be used for dogs? I've only heard it used in respect to humans. Whatev.) She was one of the three dogs we have. I've written about the other two, Troop and Gretl, when they've done something to warrant a blog, but Sweet Pea was our chill dog. She never did anything bad, or particularly good, she just was here. Its kind of a blessing for her to have passed, she was getting old. I think we had her for 13 years, give or take, so thats defnitely up there in years. The past few weeks, she had been getting sick, and generally had just been getting bad, so it's kind of a blessing she's gone; she doesn't have to suffer or anything anymore.
It was really hard for me, when I heard she was gone. I knew it was coming, but that doesn't make it any less hard. My dogs are like little members of the family. Actually, in my case, I like the dogs more than I like some of the members of my own family. Luckily, I still have Troop here, since she's my dog, and I think she'll be sticking around for a while. Which is good, because I don't think I could handle saying goodbye to another pet.
PS I would have included a picture, but my computer is retarded, and I couldn't get it to work.
It was really hard for me, when I heard she was gone. I knew it was coming, but that doesn't make it any less hard. My dogs are like little members of the family. Actually, in my case, I like the dogs more than I like some of the members of my own family. Luckily, I still have Troop here, since she's my dog, and I think she'll be sticking around for a while. Which is good, because I don't think I could handle saying goodbye to another pet.
PS I would have included a picture, but my computer is retarded, and I couldn't get it to work.
Monday, November 10, 2008
We're gonna rock, we're gonna roll, we're gonna bop, we're gonna bowl
Everyone brace yourselves. Are you sitting down? Ok, this evening I went to a ward activity! I know what you're thinking. The words 'Vieve' and 'ward activity' don't belong in the same sentence unless the words 'skipped' and 'another' are also there, but I went. I was informed of said activity like, two hours before it was going to happen, but it sounded like it could be fun, so we went.
We hooked up with this other ward for bowling at BYU. I'd never been there, but it was ok. Unfortunately, planning for it went a little awry, so we didn't have all the lanes we were promised, but it worked out. It was me, PJ, PJ's sister Annie B, and this new fellow we had met there who I actually had known years before, who I re-met tonight. Because there weren't enough lanes, we pulled out a deck of cards and played Egyptian Rat Screw until we got a lane. I love that game-and we had a new twist on it last night which was a blast. I'll have to be more careful when I play it though, I kept hurting myself.
We finally got our lane and starting bowling, and it was a lot of fun. And, to top it all off, I won! I beat all six people in our group with my dazzlingly high score of 122. I never win at bowling-I'm so awful-but I totally did well last night. But even though it was a ward activity, we didn't hang out with anyone in our ward, we just hung out with the people in the other ward. But I had a blast-maybe I'll go to more activities in the future!
We hooked up with this other ward for bowling at BYU. I'd never been there, but it was ok. Unfortunately, planning for it went a little awry, so we didn't have all the lanes we were promised, but it worked out. It was me, PJ, PJ's sister Annie B, and this new fellow we had met there who I actually had known years before, who I re-met tonight. Because there weren't enough lanes, we pulled out a deck of cards and played Egyptian Rat Screw until we got a lane. I love that game-and we had a new twist on it last night which was a blast. I'll have to be more careful when I play it though, I kept hurting myself.
We finally got our lane and starting bowling, and it was a lot of fun. And, to top it all off, I won! I beat all six people in our group with my dazzlingly high score of 122. I never win at bowling-I'm so awful-but I totally did well last night. But even though it was a ward activity, we didn't hang out with anyone in our ward, we just hung out with the people in the other ward. But I had a blast-maybe I'll go to more activities in the future!
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Lazy Sunday
Sunday is my favorite day of the week. It's my designated "Vieve" day. Don't get me wrong-I love my weekends, even when they're busy, and we're running all over the place, trying to get to a billion different places. I love the weekends when we have no plans, and we're just hanging out, doing a movie night. Sometimes, I can even appreciate the week-going to work, watching my TV, and being busy there. But nothing can compare to Sunday. It's when I listen to no one and answer to no one. I don't have to get dressed if I don't want to, I don't even have to get out of bed! Ok, usually, I do have church and that takes up time, and makes me shower and get dressed, etc, but on the days we don't go, it is pure bliss.
Today, this Sunday was really awesome for me. There's no real reason for it-nothing really special happened, but it was great just the same. I got all the things I wanted to do done-and I wasn't rushing or anything all day. I got my car cleaned (on the inside, I'm not dumb enough to be washing it right now), I gave myself a pedicure (mostly because there was nobody here I could con into giving me one...shoot), I cleaned my bathroom, and I got all my junk unpacked from my overnight stay in Ogden. I can't believe the amount of junk I pack for one night. I suppose it makes sense, because you have to have all of your toiletries, but it always just enters into my brain that I'd never be one of those girls who can just shove a couple of clothes into a bag, and leave for a trip at a moments notice. Oh well, I can live with that. I cleared out more of my Tivo, had a great run, and even got to read a little. And on the plus side-New York defeated Houston, so now we play New York next Saturday at Rio Tinto Stadium! You better believe I'm getting my tickets right now.
I know that if I had this type of day always, I'd get so sick of it, but it's nice to have once in a while. And now I'm totally relaxed, and ready for the week to start. With Sundays like these...who needs to have Mondays?
Today, this Sunday was really awesome for me. There's no real reason for it-nothing really special happened, but it was great just the same. I got all the things I wanted to do done-and I wasn't rushing or anything all day. I got my car cleaned (on the inside, I'm not dumb enough to be washing it right now), I gave myself a pedicure (mostly because there was nobody here I could con into giving me one...shoot), I cleaned my bathroom, and I got all my junk unpacked from my overnight stay in Ogden. I can't believe the amount of junk I pack for one night. I suppose it makes sense, because you have to have all of your toiletries, but it always just enters into my brain that I'd never be one of those girls who can just shove a couple of clothes into a bag, and leave for a trip at a moments notice. Oh well, I can live with that. I cleared out more of my Tivo, had a great run, and even got to read a little. And on the plus side-New York defeated Houston, so now we play New York next Saturday at Rio Tinto Stadium! You better believe I'm getting my tickets right now.
I know that if I had this type of day always, I'd get so sick of it, but it's nice to have once in a while. And now I'm totally relaxed, and ready for the week to start. With Sundays like these...who needs to have Mondays?
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Movin' on!
Holy crap! We're doing it! We're advancing! Real played Chivas tonight for the second game of the first round of playoffs, and we are moving on! We had the goal advantage from last week, since we won 1-0, so we were a little comfortable, but we knew we'd have to work hard. Chivas scored first, in the first half hour, and my heart hurt a little. Then about 10 minutes later, we scored also! Dema scored for us (the guy getting 'choked' in the above picture) The equalizer, and I breathed a little easier. In the 77th minute, we scored again-Morales did this one for us! Here we are, up 2-1, and with our goal from last week, 3-1 is really how it is. Sadly, about 5 minutes later, Chivas scores, so we're tied again. Luckily, the game ended in the 2-2 tie, so because of our previous win, we actually won! We're in the playoffs-well, we're still in, is what I should say.
We don't know who we play next. Houston plays New York tomorrow, and whoever wins out of that is the team we play. I don't know who's going to win, because, people thought we were going to lose, and we totally didn't, so it's anyone's game. Of the two, I want New York to win, because of the two teams, I think that's the one we have a better chance of beating. I know that's bad to think, but whatev. At this point, I just want to win every game. To go to the top of this is so a dream-and it could be possible! I'm just trying to be positive about everything, but trying to keep reality in view. The game is most likely going to be next Saturday (at least, that's what I'm thinking) and I can't wait. Real '08!
Friday, November 7, 2008
A little disappointing...
So, this Friday evening, PJ and I went to a concert. It was up in beautiful, scenic Ogden, so we had left work a little early to get up there, check into the hotel, and eat before hitting the concert. We were going to see Spill Canvas (who I don't really know) Augustana, and OneRepublic. I like all these guys, but the one I was most looking forward to was Augustana. I heart them. So we are going to the concert, and it's at the Dee Events Center at Weber State. It took us a bloody half an hour to get there, after being lost on Weber campus for that amount of time. That campus is impossible to navigate! Finally we found a map, so I dashed out of the car to the map, figured out where we were, and we tried to find it. Turns out, I actually can't read a map, so I led us in the wrong direction. But, we found it, and we only missed the opening band, who I didn't know. I want to say their name was like, Hush Sound or something, I'm really not sure.
When we got to the Center, there was a sign outside on the door that said that Augustana would not be playing, because the lead singer was in an accident. I was crushed! The entire reason for my going-and they weren't even there! I was a little sad, but we went in to have a good time anyway, and we totally did. We actually sat into seats this time, not on the floor, so it was kinda low-key. It's weird to sit during a concert-I'm used to being up and about, dancing and singing my lungs out. I didn't even get coarse during this-just my ears were ringing. During the concert, the OneRepublic lead singer informed us that the accident that the Augustana singer had was that he had fallen off the stage-10 days earlier. I couldn't believe it! I'm hoping to someday see them, but until then, at least I have to CD to keep me company.
When we got to the Center, there was a sign outside on the door that said that Augustana would not be playing, because the lead singer was in an accident. I was crushed! The entire reason for my going-and they weren't even there! I was a little sad, but we went in to have a good time anyway, and we totally did. We actually sat into seats this time, not on the floor, so it was kinda low-key. It's weird to sit during a concert-I'm used to being up and about, dancing and singing my lungs out. I didn't even get coarse during this-just my ears were ringing. During the concert, the OneRepublic lead singer informed us that the accident that the Augustana singer had was that he had fallen off the stage-10 days earlier. I couldn't believe it! I'm hoping to someday see them, but until then, at least I have to CD to keep me company.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
It's not technology I'm against. It's people like you.
Sometimes I hate technology. I know that it's fantastic, that it has given us so much. I appreciate very much that with the click of a few buttons, I can find out anything about anything. Wikipedia, one of my favorite websites, along with IMDB. I love texting-something technology has given us. To have a conversation without actually talking, or to be able to send people pictures? Mind-blowing to me-and I love it. To be able to carry the internet around is a fantastic tool. I understand that all of this is good and great and necessary for the world.
Now, my problem with technology is that the douches of the world seem to have the latest stuff, and boy do they want to let you know about it. One of the biggest things I hate is the bluetooth headset. Are you really so important that you have to wear that all the time? Or do you just like to feel important, so you wear it? Story: PJ and I were on Pirates of the Caribbean, the ride, last year at Disneyland. The lady sitting in front of us in the ride had a headset on, and it blinked THE ENTIRE RIDE. There is nothing more irritating than sitting in a really dark room, trying to get into the spirit of the ride, and having a blinking blue light in your face. I know, some of you are like, Vieve, why did you not just lean forward and ask her to turn it off? Here's why: I'm not good at confrontation with strangers. If I know you, I have absolutely no problem with telling you what I think and what I want (all of you know this) but if I don't know you, I don't want to approach you to tell you something! So we just suffered in silence.
Nobody will change their ways regarding this, but at least I'm getting my thoughts out there. But if you're around me-don't use your headset. Put your phone to your head, like it's intended to be. If you can't talk on the phone like that, maybe you shouldn't talk at all. Learn how to text, and have all your conversations quietly. which is better for everyone. Then I don't have to hear about your problems, and you won't get my glare of disapproval, complete with the scoff of disbelief.
Now, my problem with technology is that the douches of the world seem to have the latest stuff, and boy do they want to let you know about it. One of the biggest things I hate is the bluetooth headset. Are you really so important that you have to wear that all the time? Or do you just like to feel important, so you wear it? Story: PJ and I were on Pirates of the Caribbean, the ride, last year at Disneyland. The lady sitting in front of us in the ride had a headset on, and it blinked THE ENTIRE RIDE. There is nothing more irritating than sitting in a really dark room, trying to get into the spirit of the ride, and having a blinking blue light in your face. I know, some of you are like, Vieve, why did you not just lean forward and ask her to turn it off? Here's why: I'm not good at confrontation with strangers. If I know you, I have absolutely no problem with telling you what I think and what I want (all of you know this) but if I don't know you, I don't want to approach you to tell you something! So we just suffered in silence.
Nobody will change their ways regarding this, but at least I'm getting my thoughts out there. But if you're around me-don't use your headset. Put your phone to your head, like it's intended to be. If you can't talk on the phone like that, maybe you shouldn't talk at all. Learn how to text, and have all your conversations quietly. which is better for everyone. Then I don't have to hear about your problems, and you won't get my glare of disapproval, complete with the scoff of disbelief.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
You're right, I do look awesome.
I was told today that this month is National Blog Every Day month. This is another one of those fake holidays you read about, like National Welding month, Find a Rainbow day, or Valentines Day. I always laugh at these days, and never do anything about it. But, I decided, I might try this one! I could try to blog every day, and reach to the inner soul of myself to pull out a subject every day. Now, already, I know this probably isn’t completely possible. There are just some days that I don’t have time to blog, especially on the weekends, when there’s barely time to sleep, let alone jot down my thoughts onto a computer. But, I’m going to try my best, and now, without further ado, is day one of my efforts.
I understand that it’s hard to take compliments. I am not very good at taking them, nor am I actually good at giving them. I always think of something I want to say to a person, but then I usually chicken out of actually saying to them. I don’t know why it makes me so nervous to, say, tell someone their hair looks cute, but it does! And I debate it for the longest time: Do I say something? Keep it quiet? Usually by the time I’ve about decided, they walk away, making the decision for me. I am trying to be better at it though-I’m trying hard to tell people, because I think it just has to perk up someone’s day, to hear something nice about themselves!
Now, the taking of the compliments. It always embarrasses me-when someone tells me something nice about me, I just shrug it off, or shake my head, and try to argue with that person. Why do we do that? Someone tells you you look nice, and you try to argue with them. “You look good today, Sue” “Oh Sandy, I do not. My hair didn’t do what I wanted, and these clothes are just not fitting me like they used to” Like, what do we have to gain by being right? “Oh, you’re right, Sue. You don’t look good at all. I’m surprised I could have made such a mistake.” Is that going to make you feel better? It drives me crazy in the times when I actually have the guts to say something and someone argues with me! Seriously, people-the next time someone gives you a compliment, turn to them, flash those pearly whites, and say…Thank you. That’s it. That’s all you gotta do! It might make you feel better, and for someone to actually pay you a compliment is a pretty good thing as well, so take it and move on. And maybe later, see if you can make someone else’s day by giving them one as well.
I understand that it’s hard to take compliments. I am not very good at taking them, nor am I actually good at giving them. I always think of something I want to say to a person, but then I usually chicken out of actually saying to them. I don’t know why it makes me so nervous to, say, tell someone their hair looks cute, but it does! And I debate it for the longest time: Do I say something? Keep it quiet? Usually by the time I’ve about decided, they walk away, making the decision for me. I am trying to be better at it though-I’m trying hard to tell people, because I think it just has to perk up someone’s day, to hear something nice about themselves!
Now, the taking of the compliments. It always embarrasses me-when someone tells me something nice about me, I just shrug it off, or shake my head, and try to argue with that person. Why do we do that? Someone tells you you look nice, and you try to argue with them. “You look good today, Sue” “Oh Sandy, I do not. My hair didn’t do what I wanted, and these clothes are just not fitting me like they used to” Like, what do we have to gain by being right? “Oh, you’re right, Sue. You don’t look good at all. I’m surprised I could have made such a mistake.” Is that going to make you feel better? It drives me crazy in the times when I actually have the guts to say something and someone argues with me! Seriously, people-the next time someone gives you a compliment, turn to them, flash those pearly whites, and say…Thank you. That’s it. That’s all you gotta do! It might make you feel better, and for someone to actually pay you a compliment is a pretty good thing as well, so take it and move on. And maybe later, see if you can make someone else’s day by giving them one as well.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Like the sticker says...
I voted today! This year is such an important voting year. We're either going to have the first black president, or the first woman president. Come on, lets be honest. Poor Ol' McCain is going to die soon, and Palin will take over. I was concerned that there would be a giant long line, so I left work a little early, but I was totally worrying for nothing. We walked in, told them my name (which of course they didn't say right) and then stepped right up to the booth and cast my ballot.
I'm not going to say who I voted for (thats what privacy laws are for!) but I'm not sure I think any of the candidates are good choices. I was actually still deciding on the way to the polls. I don't know how good my vote did, because our voting system is kinda screwed, but I do get that little good feeling in my belly that I'm helping America along.
I am so psyched that the election is over because now I will have to stop hearing about it all the freaking time. You can't turn around without hearing more accusations and things of that nature. Election years are crazy, but yea for us that its all over and done. In just a few hours (or something, I don't really know how the whole thing works, really) we'll find out who won, and who we'll welcome as our next Commander in Chief. I will say this-I can't wait to find out the results!
Sunday, November 2, 2008
One down...
RSL had the first playoff game in its franchise history yesterday. We played Chivas, and, even though I had high hopes for us, I still wasn't sure that we could win. There are two games in this first "seed"-and whoever has the most goals after the two games advances. I thought maybe we could tie, but of course, hoping for a win. My boys didn't disappoint! In a crazy coincidence, Yura scored in the 90th minute-just like he did last week-and we won the game! We dominated the whole game, and had so many missed chances. After you miss like, 17 goals in a row, you start to believe that maybe you're not meant to win the game. But we pressed through, and next week, we're headed to Chivas to play the second game. We don't do that well at away games usually, but I'm hoping we play the way we've been playing lately. We either have to win or tie this game. If we tie-we have one goal up on them, so we'll be ok. This type of pressure is killing me-I can't even imagine what the players are going through!
Oh! And-we were on TV! The game was on a channel I have, so I recorded it, and in the like, 92nd minute, we were on the screen! I'm famous!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
It's so not time yet!
I'm not a fan of holidays, in general. Its fun to get ready for them, and anticipate them, but that's about it. Christmas is my favorite time-I love the shopping and decorating and baking and everything, but then when the day actually arrives, I'm not really into it. They're never that fun, and you don't get to do what you want to do. Halloween is the same-I like to think of costumes, and how other people will be dressed, but then the day gets here, and its never anything big. It's just me, wrapped in a blanket, sitting outside eating popcorn.
Which is what happened last night. PJ's fam has a popcorn machine, so they handed out popcorn to people. We were all outside, chatting and whatnot, when everyone left Peej and me out there. We took on the duties of handing out stuff. I was cold, so I was wrapped up in the aforementioned blanket, eating a nutritious dinner of popcorn. We did get some carrots later, because we felt like we needed to eat something healthy. At the end of the night, we watched the top 100 scary movie moments! They were pretty scary....not really.
When I was on my way home, maybe 10 minutes after midnight, I was flipping through the radio stations, trying to find a good song, when I happened upon Kozy (106.5). They were playing Christmas music already! I couldn't believe it-it's too early! I'm not ready for there to be Christmas stuff yet. I know there's no such thing as Thanksgiving music, but I don't think we should have the holiday music until it's almost Thanksgiving. I'm just saying-there should be no festivities until it's time for the actual holiday. Lets hold off on the Christmas music-at least for 3 weeks or so.
Which is what happened last night. PJ's fam has a popcorn machine, so they handed out popcorn to people. We were all outside, chatting and whatnot, when everyone left Peej and me out there. We took on the duties of handing out stuff. I was cold, so I was wrapped up in the aforementioned blanket, eating a nutritious dinner of popcorn. We did get some carrots later, because we felt like we needed to eat something healthy. At the end of the night, we watched the top 100 scary movie moments! They were pretty scary....not really.
When I was on my way home, maybe 10 minutes after midnight, I was flipping through the radio stations, trying to find a good song, when I happened upon Kozy (106.5). They were playing Christmas music already! I couldn't believe it-it's too early! I'm not ready for there to be Christmas stuff yet. I know there's no such thing as Thanksgiving music, but I don't think we should have the holiday music until it's almost Thanksgiving. I'm just saying-there should be no festivities until it's time for the actual holiday. Lets hold off on the Christmas music-at least for 3 weeks or so.
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